How To Be A Better Couple
10 steps to enjoying each other better...

1. Be realistic about each other.
  Don't try to turn ur partner into something he or she is not. Let's
  face it, guys-there's only 1 Pamela Anderson in the world, and even
  she has had her implants removed! Give ur gal a break and understand that her physical appearance is NOT going to change overnite with the
  help of a few facials or treatments. And ladies, Brad Pitt has already
  been taken, so u're gonna have to do with what ur guy is like! Chill
  out, love each other for what u are. There is more to ur partner than
  what meets the eye.

2. Always talk things out.
  Now guys, I know this is not ur fave pastime or mode of resolving
  issues, but u know what? This works with the gals. Don't make
  assumptions about each other's feelings. Learn to xpress urself better
  so that ur partner undrstands what u're angry about, or hurt about, or
  even happy about! When u stop talking to each other from the heart,
  it's the beginning of the end.


3. Do stuff together.
  Make an effort to do things together. Do some sports or involve
  urselves in some shared activities; something both of u enjoy or are
  interested in.
  It could be as simple as watching movies together, or jus strolling
  hand-in-hand down Orchard Road. Watch soccor with him once in a while
  though the green patch on TV puts u to sleep in 3 seconds. And guys,
  do give in if  your gal asks for another day at window-shopping,
  rather than suggest that she go out with her girlfriends for "that
  sort of activities"
  instead. If u're spending more time with ur friends rather than with
  ur partner, it's a warning sign that u're drifting apart!!!

4. Meet each other halfway.
  If he agrees to throw out that rotten T-shirt with the "The_Rock"
  print, u shouldn't kick up much of a fuss if he asks u to keep ur room
  tidy...
  There's gotta be a little giving and taking in a relationship, so
  learn to meet each other halfway.

5. Show ur love
  Buy her flowers or candy or perfume everynow and then, even if u have
  been together for 5years. It's wonderful to continue showing someone
  that u care for him or her. Cook him a special meal, paint him a
  Valentine's Day card. Knit him mini-socks he can't wear ( like for
  decoration purposes => ), buy him a packet of milk for breakfast, or
  pack his wardrobe for him...so he knows u can still be romantic and
  loving despite having been together for quite a while.

6. Respect each other.
  Stop making jokes about her hair or skin, or whatever it is u love to
  laugh at. Ask urself if she thinks if its funny. And if he has an
  inferiority complex about his height, stop ogling at tall guys and
  make him feel worse! Love is about respecting each other's feelings
  and being sensitive to each other at all times.

7. Bury the past.
  Stop bringing up the past. Gals..don't bring up the happy things about

  u and ur ex to ur guy, it would jus make him jealous or unhappy. And
  guys, don't talk about the happy times that u had with ur ex or
  mention about her in ur every other sentence as it would make ur gal
  feel un-happy and she might think that u saying all this b'cos u are
  gonna get back with ur ex or not interested in her anymore.

8. Sit on ur jealousy.
  All of us go thru' spells of insecurity at the beginning of the
  relationship, but don't translate that insecurity into jealousy. If
  u're gonna go through ur partner's mail and cupboard, and
  eavesdropping on conversations, u know something is wrong - with u!!!
  Jealousy is like a poison that slowly spreads thru' the relationship
  before finall y killing it. Trust ur partner; love has to have trust
  in it.

9. Keep ur commitments to each other.
  If ur partner is standing u up all the time and cancelling dates and
  breaking promises, u need to talk! If u're in a relationship, make ur
  partner ur priority and don't disappoint them if u can help it. It's
  really terrible when someone promises to take u to dinner, and then
  calls to cancel it. Don't make promises u can't keep. If ur partner
  starts to feel that he/she is not important enough to u, u may jus
  lose him/her.

10. Be honest.
   Honesty is not scowling at how awful she looks first thing in the
   morning, or telling him that he has the biceps of a fly~! When we say
  "be honest", we mean expressing ur feelings clearly, not being
   bitingly cruel. When u're hurt, say so, and when u're angry, tell
   him/her, w/o getting hysterical. If u can't be honest with ur partner,

   who can u be honest with? Love is also about honesty, and a
   relationship where no honesty exists probably isn't worth it!

gal83 saying love u at [5:47 PM]